On a living spree with: Loren Sanders of Lavishly Loren

The Lavish Life meets The Living Spree

I’ve been following Loren Sanders (@lavishly_loren) on Instagram for a while now and I honestly fell in love with her content right away. We shared so many similarities and became instant supporters of each other’s platforms. Loren is uplifting, positive, and I love her transparency. Not to mention, sis can SLAY all day! Quite naturally, I wanted to share Loren’s incredible story because she is definitely on a living spree!

ALLOW ME TO INTRODUCE MYSELF

Lavishly Loren is a fashion and lifestyle blog authored by Loren Sanders, a frugal fashionista and an adventurous jet-setter. Loren is a self-proclaimed “trend-savvy and budget-friendly” fashion maven who loves everything travel, beauty, reflection, women empowerment, and slay. Her muse is the lavish lifestyle. She effortlessly creates economical but sumptuously rich, expressively styled “looks” without breaking the bank. She also loves to jet set to the next island or country whenever she feels the need to live lavishly. The goal of Lavishly Loren is to inspire, share and empower others to live their best “Lavish” life, frugally.

I launched my blog as a birthday gift to myself so that I could create a safe space to express myself how I saw myself. Here we are six months later. Lavishly Loren is live and in full motion! My initial blueprint or intention for my blog was to use it as a creative outlet and public journal in a way. Little did I know that by sharing my challenges and experiences, I would be encouraging other women as well offering styling services.

Prior to my launch, I sat and thought for months about how I wanted to express myself, what is my real purpose, and what tool or platform should I share both. Often times, social media has a funny way of making things look peachy perfect when behind the scenes it’s really creative chaos. I wanted to be sure I was being my true self because it’s important to be relatable and genuine to who you are. As a Blogger, you have this pressure to continuously produce content. Which leads me to one of my challenges as a new blogger.

OVERCOMING CHALLENGES IS KEY

One challenge is freeing myself creatively. As a Blogger, you want to be relatable and sometimes you can get caught up in the “am I sharing too much” or comparing your art to other Bloggers or Creators. Truthfully, this is a constant ongoing challenge. As a person and as a Blogger, you’re constantly evolving and offering a certain level of vulnerability that you normally don’t offer up. I think that requires a unique type of courage.

Another challenge is, balancing my 9-5, blog, social life, relationship, styling services, and still have time for me. The balancing act is overwhelming at times and you really have to be real with yourself, often. You can’t do everything, period. You have to say no, you have to take mental breaks, and you just simply have to put you first.

MANIFESTING, LUV ENJOY

I’m a huge believer of manifesting. My blog is a big part of my manifesting journey. I’m continuously growing as a person and my blog challenges me to continually self reflect and be aware. That’s something that I really wanted to be intentional about. I’m not a jealous person by any means, I love to see other women smash their goals. It’s funny because when I see other women accomplish something that’s on my goal list or that’s aligned with my vision, I’ll say to myself “I’m next” and then BOOM it happens!

I’m so thankful and honored to have an amazing tribe of people on and off social media that support me wholeheartedly. I’m also thankful to be a guest blogger or featured blogger for MY LIVING SPREE. It’s actually a great example for what I manifested to happen in my first year of blogging. Not only did I get to be a guest blogger but I’m featured on the exact Bloggers blog that inspired me to start blogging from jump. Look how God works!

If you’re ready to live your best “Lavish” life, I want to help you! Be sure to follow me Instagram @lavishly_loren and subscribe to my blog Lavishly Loren. Last but not least, if you are ready to Slay With Me, I am now offering styling services. Definitely contact me if you are ready to slay, live life, and love yourself. Until next time, I’m Manifesting Luv, Enjoy!

Lavishly Loren: Fashion+ Travel= Lifestyle

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Incorporating family heirlooms into your look

“I am my ancestors’ wildest dreams”


Influence

If you follow me on social media, you may know that my grandmother passed away back in December of 2018 a couple of days before Christmas. Naturally, I was heartbroken. So much of the woman I am today is due to the immense influence she had on my life. She was a nurse and I became a nurse. She was the original world traveler and taught me the value of collecting passport stamps. As a toddler, she taught me the value of education, which inspired me to excel academically throughout grade school and enter a Top 20 University for college. Last but not least, my grandmother was the original fierce, fabulous fashionista! She was unapologetically “ON” at all times. Yes, she was the type to rock pearls and furs to the grocery store. LOL Furs were her best friend and she prided herself on her collection of fur coats, hats, and stoles. Needless to say, I’ve got it honestly. I get all of my bad and bougie traits from her. Grandma Ruby taught me well! 🙂

Keeping the legacy alive

The day before she passed away I decided to do a photoshoot with a vintage Saks 5thAvenue fur stole she passed down to me in 2015. I kept this prized heirloom tucked away safely in my closet for special occasions only. However, this day I decided to incorporate the heirloom and create a fabulous look with it—one that would honor her legacy and show her influence on my life and style.

An unforgettable moment

Shooting this look, I literally embodied her essence. It was surreal! As I stroked the fur of the stole, I felt her presence right there with me. It was as if she was reassuring me that she would always be there. I always knew she was proud of me, but I genuinely felt it in that moment. It was a moment that I would never forget.

Making her proud

Grandma Ruby tried to keep up with my blog as much as she could, but unfortunately she never got a chance to see the photos from this shoot.  She passed away the very next morning. Her legacy most definitely lives on in and through me! You are looking at “Lil’ Ruby” (as she would call me sometimes). I am proud to honor the original Mrs. Cockrell. 

In Loving Memory of my grandmother Ruby C. Cockrell
(my favorite photo of her circa late 1980s)

Other ways to incorporate heirlooms into your look

Her heirloom means even more to me than ever before. If you have something that belonged to your loved one, don’t just sit it in your closet, incorporate it into your daily look! I also have a scarf from my great-grandmother that passed away that I use as a neck-tie. If you have a broach or pin from a loved one, you can pin on your blazer or on a beret. Every time you see that piece it will remind you of their love and support and wearing these heirlooms helps you to create a style all your own.

Style details

Not only is this look in honor of my grandmother’s legacy, but its the perfect look for a fancy night out on the town. Valentine’s Day is approaching and you don’t have to break the bank to look like a million bucks. Trust me! I found this top at a local Houston thrift store for less than $10 (amazing, right?!), the skirt was $10.50 from American Apparel, and the YSL pumps were less than $300 from a second-hand store (another great deal!). Remember, it’s not how much you spend that makes your look. It is how you put it together!

How do you plan to incorporate your family heirlooms in your next look? Or rather, what is another way you can honor the legacy of your loved ones? Comment below so I can hear from you!

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